Relational Skills Assessment

This assessment maps relational strengths and growth areas across seven skill dimensions. Each partner takes it separately, answering about both themselves and their partner. When both partners finish, a shared report unlocks showing where you align, where you differ, and what to practice together. It takes about 25 minutes.

This assessment is for couples: two people in a romantic partnership, whether dating, engaged, married, or somewhere in between. It is not designed for friendships, family relationships, or colleagues.

How it works

Sign in with your email You get a link, no password, and an account that keeps your results.
Complete the assessment at your own pace. Your progress is saved automatically, and you can return to finish later.
Invite your partner with a link you receive after finishing. Once both of you complete the assessment, the couple report becomes available to both of you.

Get started

Starting a new assessment requires a Relational Mastery membership ($24.99/month) or a single assessment pass ($39). Members get one assessment each month, your choice of type. Your partner does not need a membership or pass. Once you start and invite them, they take it for free.

Each partner must use their own email address. The assessment tracks your answers to your email, so two people cannot share one.

Already started? Sign in with the same email and you will pick up exactly where you left off. Your answers are saved to your account, not your browser.

Already have an invite from your partner?

Use the link they sent you. It connects your assessment to theirs. If you lost the link, ask your partner to resend it from their completion page.

For professionals

If you are a therapist administering this assessment to a client couple, the therapist workspace lets you create assessments linked to your account, track completion, and receive a therapist-specific report for each couple.

Open therapist workspace