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Results after a week?

Postby kindred_essence » Sat Feb 21, 2009 7:42 pm

Hey guys,

Been grounding for just over a week but been getting some interesting results.

For one, girls at uni have started to blush whenever they see me. One girl approached me in the library and after a few minutes of conversation and her eye fucking me, she says, 'hey, I can't have sex before marriage so let's find a priest fast, like now'. I was a bit thrown back, if I'm honest but I nonchalantly threw back, 'hey, maybe next time..call me next week'.

My first results were the day after I began natural grounding. I had a woman follow me and practically not let me get away from my friends. I felt like I was floating at this point and ALL the women were staring at me; my friend [who is much better looking that me, he looks like a model] was surprised that I was getting more attention than him. Strangest thing tho, I was able to feel some kind of pressure between women and I [something I've since not felt again] but I actually felt like I was a magnet. Was weird. Felt like an invisible force was pressing between us, almost like some invisible balloon was in between us. The first time this happened, the woman and I snapped our heads at at EXACTLY THE SAME TIME , and just gazed into each other's eyes for like 5 seconds [when you're gazing, five seconds feels like an eternity tho! lol]. It was like something out of a movie. She comes over and starts talking to me as if we'd known each other for ages. I felt like she was my girlfriend. THAT was weird, it was cool. It was so fuckin' spiritual I can't believe how good it felt - THAT'S the kind of connection I've been waiting for all my life - and there it was. It was a beautiful thing. Has anyone else felt this 'pressure wave'?

What else, ahh yes..the girls in the lab have just been acting a bit weird around me lately.

But the results are inconsistent. I'll go for like an hour when every woman wants me then for the rest of the day get no attention, especially when I've been studying real hard [maybe I am, but just not noticing it].

Giving up porn hasn't been too hard, neither has the masturbating [haven't done either for about two and a half weeks now, since listening to Cory Skyy's affirmations]. Reading the posts keeps my mind on the end goal. And I was, quite frankly, sick and tired of chasing women - it definitely wasn't something I could see myself doing my whole life.

We'll have to see how this all pans out. I definitely still have my insecurities and some girls from the past are still floating around in my head. The attachment is definitely going down, but has not disappeared.

Although I have had small results with women so far, the most interesting ones have been the changes within myself. I feel great within my own body. I feel like a little kid again, when your own world is the most important and treasured thing.

Once in a while, I do have my doubts and wonder whether I'm just getting lucky or if it actually IS the natural grounding. I'm an attractive guy as it is and am used to attention from women now and again. Let's hope I overcome these limiting beliefs. Ah yes, and once in a while, I fear that nothing may happen - as in, all this natural grounding may amount to nothing.

Did you guys ever have such doubting thoughts, and if so, how did you overcome them? I'm finding it hard to continue when I'm feeling like I might reach a plataeu and not get better. That was the pattern being in the community..you plateau [i.e. you reach a 'sticking point'], you 'blast' past the sticking point with HOURS of effort, then you plateau again. I'm tired of sticking points. Are there natural grounding 'sticking points' or are the results exponential? I feel silly asking all this because I know my thoughts create my reality but yet I doubt myself. Stupid really.

Those of you who found this before the community are so damn lucky. I'm having to UNLEARN all the crap I learnt, all the silly mindsets and beliefs pick-up 'gurus' instilled in my system...I pity the fool..who enters the 'community'.

Peace and love,

-John
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Postby mr_marcus07 » Sat Feb 21, 2009 9:12 pm

Did you guys ever have such doubting thoughts, and if so, how did you overcome them? I'm finding it hard to continue when I'm feeling like I might reach a plataeu and not get better. That was the pattern being in the community..you plateau [i.e. you reach a 'sticking point'], you 'blast' past the sticking point with HOURS of effort, then you plateau again. I'm tired of sticking points. Are there natural grounding 'sticking points' or are the results exponential? I feel silly asking all this because I know my thoughts create my reality but yet I doubt myself. Stupid really.


Know It's all in your head.

Let go of your attachment to getting results- and just relax and enjoy whatever happens.

Go with the flow- focus on enjoying the moment.

Don't become attached to getting the success that you have got, and all of the success that will be coming to you. Be grateful for it, enjoy it, just let things happen- but don't let your success define you,

Don't let it determine your happiness.

Any sticking points are purely created by you, and they're all in your head. They don't exist. they're caused by your attachment to your success
they're caused by: you think that you need it, and you're trying to make it happen again.

you're trying to get too much- just let it go, let go of needing it to make you happy- and relax. Be grateful for all the great success that you have had, you are having, and are going to have- and just enjoy the moment.

Go with the flow, enjoy whatever happens, don't be attached to results, chill and just have fun.
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Postby kindred_essence » Sat Feb 21, 2009 11:42 pm

Thanks for the advice man.

I'll let go. I'll try.

I know this stuff. This neediness has jeopardised my relationships with many beautiful girls.

I need to let go, you're right.

Damn, this stuff is gonna need some real introspection.

I create my reality; I know this.

Thanks for the note.

John
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Postby kindred_essence » Sun Feb 22, 2009 3:43 am

...is this 'letting go' thing supposed to be this painful?
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Re: Results after a week?

Postby HMWH » Sun Feb 22, 2009 3:44 am

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Postby Nexus Paradigm » Sun Feb 22, 2009 3:29 pm

Kindred_Essence wrote:

...is this 'letting go' thing supposed to be this painful?


:) I don't know about painful but it really is going to be difficult from what it sounds like you have attachments that you really need to set free trust me once you break past this it will seem like weight has been lifted. You will be happier I've been going through the programs and trying to ground a little more each day I've started with two videos on you tube watching Palmy but I want to try at least upgrade to an hour it's been interesting as far as I can tell but I want to try and keep at it I've noticed small changes people respond to me more but that's it I still have a long journey I plan on trying a couple of other things I will let you know what they are as soon as I get started on it on a different thread.
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Postby Naled » Sun Feb 22, 2009 7:09 pm

Kindred,
you have to really feel at peace and happy by yourself.
How ? by letting go.

Whenever you feel any neediness, FEEL IT MORE, DON'T RESIST it, allow it to be there... try to watch it, understand that you are NOT the feelings... it's just energy in the body.

Imagine seeing a girl with needy eyes, it's not win for you, neither for her..
imagine now what's like to really be happy by yourself, and to be able to really love a girl, you will feel a "better love", more respect, more freedom and you won't care so much if she don't reciprocate, it's just her loss..
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Postby aztecsfinest » Sun Feb 22, 2009 8:18 pm

You've been in the seduction community or a while, surely you know the use (and the negative connotations a la Ross Jeffries) of NLP.

Your thoughts don't make your reality really, its your beliefs. I remember how the community made me afraid of my own thoughts:P

And how I won't be attractive if I feel emotions and all that.

Grab some weapons out of my Reframe arsenal and blow up soe limiting beliefs. There are beliefs you can still have from a really young age even "The big kids are scary" its fun though to reframe them all, soon you get hungry for more and new information and new questions to ask your mind.

Soon reframes exist in your mind at all times, every generalisation or I Can't that comes in to your mind, immediatly there's a "How do you know that's true?"

Can get annoyingly addictive though:P

Ask yourself:
Why is it like that? Whats the purpose of it? How do I know its true?
then
How would I know if this were not true?
Whats a context where believing this would actually be useful?
What else could this mean? Is there another way of perceiving this?
How do you know that that’s true?
Propose a different outcome that challenges the relevancy of the belief.
How would I know if this wasn’t true

I only use How do you know that's true?
and
How would you know if it wasn't true then
"What fantastic breakthrough or relisation do I have to come to, to believe *said opposite*"

Didn't like David Ds reframes, they were too complicated for me!

Your min will give you answers to any question you ask it, those are the olny thoughts you have to be aware of.
"Why am I so stupid!" if you ask that you'll get an asnwer.
"What can I do next time that would give a more beneficial result?"

"What would inspire me to do this/that"

"What would my life be like, if I never needed (or needed to needed) attraction, love, friends, acceptance etc. and how could I still be happy as a result?

Also, here's my favourite.

Pinpoint the location of your negative irritating voice, visualise it as a person right in front of view.

Thn pin point your most confident powerful voice and visualise it as a person in front of you. Then imagne your negative voice stepping in to the positive powerful confident voiceand seeing the world through his eyes.

I also have a proven effective one-itis cure only available to genuine lovers of women if you need it.
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Re: Results after a week?

Postby jared2010 » Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:21 am

kindred_essence wrote:
Those of you who found this before the community are so damn lucky. I'm having to UNLEARN all the crap I learnt, all the silly mindsets and beliefs pick-up 'gurus' instilled in my system...I pity the fool..who enters the 'community'.

Peace and love,

-John


I found this before the community, actually
found DYD at the same time but this sounded
more interesting so...
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